Dr. Rebecca Lee Crumpler made history in 1864 as the first Black woman in the United States to earn a medical degree. Working during the turbulent aftermath of the Civil War, she dedicated her practice to caring for poor Black women and children who were often denied medical treatment. Despite intense racism and sexism, her work laid the foundation for generations of Black physicians who would follow.

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