When a mother becomes her daughter’s competition, the wound doesn’t always scream — sometimes it whispers. It looks like canceled plans when a man calls. It sounds like, “You’re too sensitive.” It feels like warmth one week and withdrawal the next. In this week’s Ask The Aunties, a 16-year-old girl questions whether she’s wrong for feeling unsafe in a home where love seems conditional. The Aunties respond with honesty, wisdom, and one powerful reminder: recognizing instabilit