A Black Queen's Responsibility

Across social media, a storm of gender-driven debates are reshaping how black men and women see one another. I'm not sure about you, but I am exhausted. From viral think pieces, to heated comment sections. The digital “gender wars” create a narrative that pits us against each other, diminishing the deep legacy of love, partnership, and unity that has always rooted our community. But beyond the noise, black love is still blooming, evolving, and holding strong.

As a poet, observer of society, and a black woman sifting through the chaos, I wrote a poem to redirect our attention to the truth: It is our God-given responsibility to provide power, love, and joy to our black men in every season. It will be returned to us tenfold. Always has and always will.

From my published book of poetry, Lost Between the Sheets, I present to you a powerful poem titled, "A Black Queen's Responsibility", a love letter to our black kings, as a reminder that many of us still and will love them unconditionally.

I cannot fail you.

The system has failed you.

A system that lied when it said it would serve and protect you. 

The system that manipulated your own brother against you.

The spirit of racism heightens our enemies' falsely worn egos

With the intent to instill fear so that they can control

You.

To unravel you.

To break you.

To dismantle you.

But they cannot erase you.

Because God created you

 And because I cannot fail you.

When you needed someone to be your Queen, you were misunderstood.

Mistreated.

Abandoned.

And left confused.

I am no fool. I know you aren’t perfect, but you're worth it.

And the way that God created a black man for me

I clasp my hands while I'm down on my knees

Submissive and open to a deeper understanding

Your presence is undeniably commanding

I crave the innermost version of you.

Black and unapologetic.

Devoted lover to his family 

And the circles he dwells in

Above men.  Angelic.

Yet, earthbound

While walking on spiritual ground

My instructor. 

My protector. 

I implore to hear your laughter

Every chapter 

My king, I cannot fail you

We are living in a world that has been shaped to abase you

Our minor issues don't compare to this repulsive war

Of race,

Of political dismay 

A diversion from our own true purpose 

Our resiliency is empowering

We become Kings and Queens so naturally 

Hence, how "you and I" became "we"

with ease 

I cannot leave

So here I am 

And here is where I'll be

With love, 

Your Black Queen

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About Kiyaza:

Kiyaza the Poet is a multifaceted author and creative whose work bridges poetry, design, and self-discovery. In her book Lost Between the Sheets, she invites readers into her intimate journey through relationships, friendships, and the layered experiences of life as a Black woman.

Beyond her literary voice, Kiyaza channels her artistry into Water Lily Studios, a design platform of journals and planners, where she encourages reflection, creativity, organization, and self-sufficiency in everyday life. 

Her latest creation, Poetry in Bloom, is a collection of handmade, framed poems adorned with pressed flowers, celebrating beauty, resilience, and the art of storytelling.

Kiyaza’s writing focuses on the raw and reflective journey of self-discovery while exploring love, loss, healing, and growth through the lens of a millennial Black woman. 

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Connect with Kiyaza! 

Email: createdbyzakiya@gmail.com

Instagram: @kiyazawrites

Website: www.zakiyacreates.com  

Book: Lost Between the Sheets vol. 1 : https://a.co/d/6PaU3bV